The Angkor Wat forest was unusually still that afternoon.
The air felt heavy, as if even the ancient trees were waiting. I had been sitting quietly along a shaded path when I noticed Mom Libby and her small one near the roots of a towering fig tree.

The little one—curious, energetic, unaware of danger—wandered just a bit too far. It wasn’t far by adult standards, but in the forest, distance can change quickly. A sudden movement in the brush. A shifting branch overhead.
And then it happened.
Mom Libby reacted fast—firmly pulling her little one back. The motion looked rough at first glance. The small one stumbled slightly, startled more than hurt. For a brief second, the forest felt tense.
If you only saw that moment, you might misunderstand it.
The young one let out a soft cry, confused. Mom Libby held her baby close afterward, breathing heavily, scanning the area. Her eyes weren’t angry—they were alert. Protective.
As an American reader, it’s easy to relate to that split-second reaction. Every parent has had that moment in a parking lot, near a busy street, at the edge of a staircase. The instinct to pull your child back quickly can look sharp—but it comes from fear, not cruelty.
Mom Libby didn’t walk away. She stayed.
After the initial shock, she groomed the little one gently, smoothing fur, checking carefully. The small body leaned back into her warmth. Within minutes, the tension faded.
What struck me most wasn’t the firmness of the reaction. It was what followed.
She kept the young one closer for the rest of the afternoon. When the little one tried to wander again, she adjusted her position, blocking risky directions without force. It felt like a recalibration—learning in real time.
Parenting isn’t polished. It’s reactive. Emotional. Protective.
In American homes, parents talk often about “mom guilt”—that quiet questioning after raising your voice or grabbing a child’s arm too quickly. Watching Libby, I saw something similar. A softness returned to her movements. Extra closeness. Extra reassurance.
The little one eventually relaxed completely, even dozing against her chest as golden light filtered through the trees.
The forest returned to calm.
Sometimes, what looks harsh is actually fear wrapped in urgency. And sometimes, love shows itself not just in protection—but in how quickly comfort follows.
By sunset, they moved deeper into the shade together. The little one stayed close, and Libby’s movements were slower now, deliberate and watchful.
It wasn’t a perfect moment.
It was a real one.
And real moments are where growth begins.